It was about two weeks later before I got the opportunity to put my new plan into action. I saw an ad on one of the sites I frequent monitor for ads by married dudes looking for male/male sex. This ad had all the right words to show that the author was a married dude who wanted to meet up with a guy for some carnal fun.
“Super discreet visitor, very clean, looking to have safe fun with another DISCREET guy. No gays, no fems – looking for regular guy. Versatile, but tend toward the bottom. 35, white, masculine, 165, 5 foot 11.”
"Discreet" is usually a clue that the guy is married. "Clean" usually means no diseases (also sometimes called "DDF" – Drug and Disease Free). Second mention of "discreet" confirms he his married. "Safe" means using a condom.
"Versatile" describes a guy that can either top or bottom. I don’t think that I have ever met a truly versatile guy. Guy are more tops or bottoms in my experience. Words like “versatile,” “versatile/bottom,” “versatile but tend to bottom” are all ways of a guy communicating that he is a bottom but can’t bring himself to admit it (even in an anonymous ad).
I love guys who are online looking for sex with another man and specify no gays. Talk about the ability to compartmentalize. No fems – means the guy wants a masculine guy – a true “man.”
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